In an Instagram world, full of bloggers and people living their "perfect' lives that they proudly flaunt by posting pictures and stories every dy, we are prone to lose the touch of reality and our ability to distinguish what's fake and what's not.
Maybe it's just me, but I think that by spoting pictures of our lives, we are opening the door to our privacy and allowing other people in and in turn, our lives become centered on the opiions of other people. We become obsessed with impressing others that we forget about ourselves and what it is that we truly want.
By doing so, we are unconsciously missing out on people that may be good for us. People with big hearts who are loyal and want to find tru love. We could be missing on them because we are not lettinng down our guard, we are not allowing anyone to come close enough to us where they can hurt us. We are pushing peole away by being emotionally distant because society has taught us that it is the only way to survive and not having your heart broken repeatedly.
The truth is when you start dating someone, all the process of getting to know each other should be intimate and private (not in a sexual way). You should base your opinion of a certain person only by your own perception and judgement and not according to other people tell you about them.
Because the truth is, we are not perfect. Every person has a past and has made mistakes along the way. We've all experienced pain and heartbreak, but we have different ways of dealing with it and protecting ourselves. We are different people and we want different things in life, and that's why you should never look for approval from others. Do what your heart tells you to do.
And when it comes to dating, the best way is to date in silence. Don't tell anyone until you get to know the other person well so that you will not make the is take of letting other people's opinions mislead you. Trust your own judgment Even if you are wrong, at least you will know that you have tried you best and you'll save yourself from regrets.
Date silently because the only outside are envious, judgmental, and cold enough to put out any fire that is burning around you. two.
A real relationship is between two people. Period. It shouldn't be between you, your partner, your friends, your family, their family, your ex, their ex, or Paul from Instagram.
So, give yourself time and space to choose wisely. And always, always follow your heart. Because when you date silently, the love between you is loud and clear. And when you date out loud, the love will be silenced.
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